Maybe it’s true love

Something happened some time back then which kinda boggled my mind.

Nothing big, nothing serious, I promise. But I’m just very curious what most of you think.

Hmm, I was just passing a comment back then to a guy friend of mine.

“Your wife has a terrific figure!”, my voice filled with envy.

“Of course lah! That’s why I married her mah!”.

“…………………..”

I, obviously was at a loss of words. Didnt know how else to respond but to smile like an idiot.

Anyway, wouldnt want to comment much lah but how would you like your spouse to reply to such a question?

“Why you marry your wife?”

Hmmm…for me, definitely it wont be because of looks or figure. Because I have none of them at the start. WAHAHAHA.

So I shall try to act classy and spiritual by saying,

I would love him to answer as

“Because I love the way she is and wants her to be by my side forever.”

SO CHEESY! You might say.

But I like it and it’s my perfect answer. =)

I shall ask him tonight. Dont think he has the time to read this entry as yet as he’s busy outside.

Yesterday we were at Vivo shopping and my total damages were around $200. Arghh! We meant to leave early at 9+pm because dearie had appointment. But when we tried to exit the level 6 carpark, we couldnt! Because of the huge mass of cars stucked in the 6 storeys of “roundabout” carpark.

How bad was it? Let’s just say for 40minutes, we only managed 5metres and we cant even reach the “opening” of the “roundabout”. Can you imagine after 40minutes and we’re still stucked at level 6. It’s obscene! The highest storey is 7th so there were also cars preventing us from getting out.

Dearie’s appointment was supposed to be 10pm but I hinted him to postpone tomorrow because the jam was really disastrous. But HE CANT GET IT. So he asked whether it’s okie that he reached later. =.= HA! Later. Dont even dream of reaching before midnight lor!

What’s worse was this silly, goondu hubby of mine still have to be Mr Nice Guy at this hour. We practically already wasted 20minutes waiting and only managed to move like 3metres. There was this car which reversed parked and wanted to come out just on our left side. And a fat obasan came out to signal to us to let her hubby drive the car out. I, being the mean, selfish prick was obviously against it.

Look at it this way, we waited for around 20minutes to come this far, albeit 3metres. And you expect the moment you popped into your car and wish to take the same position, IMMEDIATELY? Dont forget there were like 5 cars behind us, who waited for exactly the same amount of time. On the other hand, there were also 2 cars on the right side(parked the normal way) and wanted to get out too. But they were more sedate and waited patiently for a chance, inching bit by bit out.

I was very very annoyed at this fat obasan and said out loud in the car it’s impossible to give way to her in this situation. How to give way when the queue was obviously not moving? And guess what, my stupid husband go and let them take the lead out. And GUESS AGAIN, the other 2 cars took the same opportunity and all came out at once.

Suddenly we were overtaken by, NOT 1, NOT 2 but 3 cars!

I was really tulan till what kinda vulgarities also can scold already but I curbed myself. Neverthless, I scolded Ad left right centre cum upside down. I specifically told him not to give way liao but he didnt get it inside his head and even said what can he do when the obasan came all the way infront to signal him to give way.

“SAY NO! SIGNAL CANNOT!” I snarled.

Really felt like slapping him right then and I damn well mean it. What does he mean by “what can I do”? There’re tons of stuff he can do other than siting behind the wheels and staying silent.

He still had the cheek to ask, “if so, why didnt you signal “NO” to her when she demanded?”

Crazy, why should I signal to her? I dont even want to chup her. I’m IGNORING HER because she was god-damn buay zi dong. And YOU WERE BEHIND THE STEERING WHEEL! If you dont let their car come out, there’s no way they can! What’s there to talk so much?”

After that 3 cars cut infront of us, I asked Ad to inched forward to over take the obasan’s car. Being cut twice is enough, not need thrice. At first they were reluctant! Think about gratitude, for GIVING them a chance to come out. I screamed at Ad again, die die must over take them since they repay kindness with SHIT. Finally the fcuk drive relented and let us lead them. But I bet ALL the drivers behind us must be cursing us upside down.

I told dearie, “you want to be Mr Nice Guy, also must see situation. You are obviously pressed for time. We waited very long and SO ARE THE 5 CARS BEHIND! You want to be nice to that obasan, can you at least be FAIR to the 5 drivers behind too, who waited MUCH longer than that obasan?”

1 good thing about Ad is, despite allllll his faults, he stayed quiet and let me KP. After another 15minutes, which is close to 1hour, we were only JUST nearing the “roundabout” which winds down the storeys. Ad then postponed his appointment and he drove upwards to level 7. We went back Vivo, grabbed a steak set at Terra Cafe and settled for Ice Age 3 in 3D at 11.20pm.

From the way the jam looked, it’s impossible to even reach level 1 in less than 2hours. “And dont forget the petrol lor,” I reminded dearie. Waste time cum oil. I already hinted him to postpone the appointment till tomorrow already after 20 minutes of waiting but HE JUST COULDNT GET IT until 1 hour later.

Tian ahhhhhhh

But surprisingly, he managed to cool me down after sometime after my “explosion”, saying by letting that fat obasan cut the Q, it’s a blessing in disguise.

I looked at him with narrowed eyes, menacingly until he explained, “if we didnt let her, we will be the one driving into the “roundabout” already and would probably be stucked inside there for more than 2 hours and cant get out already!”

*rollz eyes* True lah. So Mt Fuji finally cooled down.

We shopped abit at a few remaining shops before he irritated me AGAIN by kept asking me whether did he locked his car.

*breathe deeply*

How the hell I know?! I mean, he MUST have locked his car, it’s a reflex action to lock the car by remote everytime we came out but he always double check the car doors. Perhaps he forgot whether he did and kept bugging me!

“You’re very irritating leh!! Go and check lah if you want and stop bothering me!”

So he went all the way back, took the lift, check the car-door and came back again. You say lah, got people so blur or not?

And amazing thing was, after he’s back, we still can sit down and have a steak set as per nothing was amiss, laughed heartily and was endearing as a newly wedded couple. He was deadbeat after the movie and I gave him a massage before he slept.

Sometimes I also dont understand myself. Perhaps this is love. True love~

But really, I hope he’s less nice and be more manly and assertive. I dont like the way like I’m the one protective of him and not him protecting me. I’m supposed to be the female leh.

I need ideas

Geez. I cant help indulging in the festive mood although Christmas is still like quite far away. Partly because few happy occasions are just around the corner. James’s wedding is on 29th Nov. Dearie’s birthday is on 4th Dec. So far no plans for Christmas. Nobody invites me to parties or gathering. Oh boy, Im so lifeless. But you know what? Im still very blissful and happy. =D Because with dearie, I seem to have the world. =)

If you’re wondering why should you marry or why you should even marry your current boyfriend(if he ever proposes), then your answer, should preferably be like mine;

That is,
There’s nobody else except him whom you like to see after a whole day of hard work.
There’s nobody else except him whom you like to see whenever you wake up in the morning.
There’s nobody else except him whom you wish to call to complain after meeting a nasty client.
There’s nobody else except him whom you wanna hug to share happy news with.
There’s nobody else except him whom you wanna kiss after watching a touching movie scene.
There’s nobody else except him whom you wanna spend the rest of your life with.

IF you’re attached with a boyfriend and you have more than 1 image or name in your mind for all the above questions, please re-consider the proposal(for any).

IF you’re attached with a boyfriend and you have different images or names in your mind for allllll the above questions, then seriously something is wrong with you.

Lol.

Im definitely not the so-called SA–>Snugly Attached…hmm…or rather…SM–>Snugly Married. I just dont wish to see couples marry for all the wrong reasons and go through a whole lot of episodes and end up back to square one with a by-product which wails and screams for milk all the time. That’s such a waste of time and effort, and money.

Though nobody knows what will happen in the future(I dont even know mine), well, at least try to go for one which is promising…and not…vague.

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Dropped by my bridal, NewImage to browse some of their gowns because I know they got quite a few new ones as some brides just had their weddings in Nov. It’s a good thing IMM is near my place, hence I can pop down whenever I want to. It’s not super near lah but at least better than tanjiong pagar or town. And also, I wanted to try on my new pair of silver super-super-high-heels with different cuttings of gowns(especially ball gowns) to see how I look in them, before I decide on the design on my MTM wedding gown. I wont want to look like a pumpkin.

One must know her flaws and attributes. *winKz*

I always know they have a pathetic range of gowns because they have been aggressively, indirectly discouraging me to see their studio. Their company is very new, I know that. Before viewing the studio, I’ve already thought of the worst. But..I would say…they really WIN liao lah. Because, it’s really really really pathetic. Erm..they asked me not to worry so much because many more gowns will be added to the collection for my selection next year. Okok. Anyway, I just tried on a few different gowns and roughly got some ideas. It seems ball gowns are not entirely out of the list for me…but I still need to analyze a design with caution.

I actually spent few hours in IMM and it was a disaster. Somehow I loittered here and loittered there…and…eventually loittered into a shop with a nice cheongsum on their display mannequin.

“You bought another cheongsum, AGAIN?”

*head low low*

“not one but two?”

I really cant help it if the first piece was at a 30% off and the second at 50% off, can I?!

And you wont know I fit their S size PERFECTLY!

Oh well, one of them need some alteration at the waist…but…but…it’s only a $8 extra. And both cheongsums are of good quality, length just nice(knee), came up to around a $100 only. That’s about $50 1 piece. Very value for money!

“You buy so many cheongsums, got occasions to wear or not??!!”

*blushed furiously*

BY HOOK OR BUY CROOK, I WILL FIND OCCASIONS TO WEAR LAH! At most, for James’s wedding, Xmas, New Year, Chinese New year, Huey’s wedding, Bridal photoshoot and Wedding Actual Day(in chronological order), I ALL WEAR CHEONGSUMS LOR!

WAHAHAHAHAHAHA!

=P

Im really getting incorrigible. It’s my 5th cheongsum already. *stuck out tongue*

Also bought a nice long sleeve shirt top and a pair of slingback from Mondo. =)

Okie that’s all for now till Feb!! No more shopping already!! Because Im going Macau/Hongkong in Mid-Jan. =P Buy there instead.

My things to buy there
1) cheap gloves to match cheongsums
2) cheap fur-wraps
3) cheap heels to match cheongsums

Abit headache on how to celebrate dearie’s birthday. Another hotel stay I think. We just love to nua. Dearie told me dont spend so much..hmm…but I do wish we have a lovely night stay. Fullerton and Furama abit sian already…maybe trying other hotels. But shunning 5 star hotels since I wanna save money. But I also dont want sleazy hotels leh….headache….

Do comment if you have any ideas. =)

No Singapore Flyer please. It’s so boring!

We have no time for a bintan/batam getaway too.

Mushy Mushy Post

Had a lovely dinner cum some short shopping with darling Ser yesterday at The Central. I ordered a cheesed baked gratin with seafood(scallops, prawns and squids) while Ser ordered some soupy spaghetti at Waraku Restaurant. I love cheese. It was yummy. We shopped a little. I bought a top and short jacket.

As T is celebrating her birthday in advance at St James tonight, I chose to so-call celebrate with her yesterday at Boat Quay via chilling because I hardly club these days. Getting old already. Expecting the same crowd, I thought will be fun, so I pulled Ser along. She’s very anti-social lah but I promised her my friends are a friendly and fun bunch, hence she gave in. When we reached BQ, I was shocked to see such a huge crowd. Mostly of people I dont know, or dont know well. They are friends of T. Hmm….different frequency, cant click, if you get what I mean. I was sorry to drag Ser there and we were both kinda bored..hence we left early at around 11+pm. Dearie came to pick us up.

Most of my fantastic, sweet, pretty friends were surprisingly single. Not that I feel being single is a sin(single life can be very fulfilling too!), but I do wish to spice things up alittle by throwing romance confetti in the air. Most of them are pretty closed up, with all that pretty package of sweetness hidden from the world. I so wish somebody can appreciates so as not to let all that go to waste. Lately, few male friends were asking me for nice single ladies to intro. They’re not desperate or just hot for some s*x, because if they are, I cant even be bothered to entertain them. Of course I sieved them through some degree of standards before I wish to introduce them to my darling gers. I cant introduce some heartbreakers to my girls isnt it? Romance or relationship is not a MUST. I believe we can still make friends and widen our social circle. I dont wish to make it like a 1-to-1 matchmake affair which many might find it uncomfortable. So usually it will a group gathering. In short, Im like a mamasan lah. I will bring the single ladies while another fren will bring some single guys.

But sometimes, I feel..dont know…In the midst of doing all these stuff, Im so afraid dearie will misunderstand it’s me who wants to meet the guys. Because practically the gatherings are either arranged by me or a papasan. Im not really a anti-social-hidden-in-the-closet person. Im outgoing but rather choosy with who I mix with. And I do admit I like fun gatherings too. Hmm..but I want to emphasize again the whole world knows Im attached. I have never hide that Im attached from my friends(significant enough). Some closer ones know Im getting married too. Just that it seemed dearie keep worries I will be open to…erm…temptations? So..actually Im not allowed to meet guys alone, not even male colleagues…unless they’re clients and business related. Gatherings are generally OK..but have to report abit…

So the point of this post, sigh, I just want to emphasize my heart is always with dearie and that I only love him. So far from the time that Im together with him, the only problem only stemmed from within us and not from external factors. Im pretty sure I can withstand temptations well because Im not the kind who falls in LOVE easily and my LOVE dont swayed easily. That’s LEO. They might appear flamboyant, flirty at times but that’s just on the surface. It takes a long long time for them to fall in love but once in love, their feelings dont change easily. They have a very strong sense of integrity and loyalty, therefore they dont commit easily as attached or marriage. Because they know if they do, they will move heaven and earth to stay commited..and it requires a great deal of effort as we well know. A promise which takes a lifetime to stay true.

Im not easily swayed by honey words or a mere handsome face like some of my friends, not that it’s a fault anyway. But you see, Im a cynic. And because Im was never beautiful, I never feel love can happen at first sight so all those..lovey dovey honey words really dont work on me! Of course they soothes my ears sometimes but it stays only at there. Hmm I know dearie always worry people will fall on me, but seriously that seldom happens lah. Most of my guy friends treats me nice is ONLY BECAUSE THEY WANT ME TO INTRODUCE MY PRETTY FRIENDS TO THEM LAH. Practical bunch. =P But Im not angry of course. I would love to see my close friends all happily pair pair together, if possible lah, subjected to matching qualities.

Sometimes I will tend to compare, Why some of my friends can go out club till daylight with a bunch of guys and girls and the bf wont even complain even with huggy/hands-on-shoulders kinda pictures, but MY BF will frown whenever he knows my group got guys. =.= He said he trust me, but he just dont trust the other guys. I seriously hope so wor. On a positive note, because he bears some sort of UNCERTAINTY or WORRY towards me..ahem..giving in to temptations, his care and concern is more and he dont take me for granted. That, I really do appreciates. Because he ownself knows temptations are everywhere so he himself also dont meet ladies alone(other than business related) just so he wont be EXPOSED to temptations. Well, Im glad he doesnt practice double standards. There are no best of both worlds. If given a choice between, X, a boyfriend who simply bo-chup who you go out with because he’s so damn sure you will NEVER EVER leave him and thus take you for granted, and Y, a boyfriend who sets some minor restrictions on you(which he follows himself) because he worries that you will leave him(out of 0.000009% chance) and thus he never takes you for granted and treats you like a princess. Oh well..then I’ll choose Y then. I’ll just throw in extra dose of re-assurance, love/concern with total honesty. I think we will work just right.

Lastly, darling I love you. Smuacks~

Cry & Laugh

Haiz. My dear friend is down. I have said all I want to say in an email to her. I wondered should I have tell her how I feel ages ago and would that make a difference? Anyway, we cant turn back time. We can only look towards the future. Many things are easier said than done. Why wouldnt I not know? I have been through it myself before. And trust me girl, my friend has been through WORSE stuff than you.

The most heartbreaking thing about love is not 失恋. 失恋 is just part and parcel of life. It’s something you have to experience it at least once in your lifetime BUT you dont have to let it RUIN your LIFE. And if you asked me what is the most heartbreaking thing. I would say it’s when you’re happily settled down with your husband and 2 beautiful kids and 1 day you found out that he’s having an affair. The result will be a divorce, with a family torn apart, with kids so young so innocent and so clueless about why their parents are splitting. Going to court, fighting for custody, fighting for alimony, struggling to make ends meet for a single-parent family, consoling your children that they’re no way more “different” from normal kids in their class. THAT, is the most tragic thing.

Do you prefer to 失恋 now or go through all that years later when you’re no longer beautiful, youthful with 2 kids tagging behind you? Im very happy that you dont need to go through all that. Instead, you will have a bright future with your Mr Right who is still hiding somewhere at the moment. Ahhh….you have to seek him out and stop closing your doors. Because fate is playing you a trick but destiny lies in your own hands.

I shall stop nagging like an old hag nor preach like a nun. Instead, I shall post up some pics of me which might make you laugh like mad. BUT DONT GO SPREAD HOR!!

I came across a webby lah, which you can upload your pictures and see how will you look like if you’re born in the old era. It’s very cute and funny.

Laugh. Laugh away at your expanse.

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Year 1954

2
1962

3
1966

1978
1978

4
1982 – eh, the year I was born.

1994
1994

There are lots more but some of them, the frames dont work that well. There’s a stupid trail of fringe in all the pics because bo bian, the clearest pic of my face without fringe and bangs is this one already.

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Too bad I dont have photoshop lah, otherwise can photoshop it away. Eh, actually I got also no use because I dont know how to use it to beautify pics. Blearh.

Oh ya. Play away yourself at http://yearbookyourself.com/. And do share pics wor!