Oh boy! This song describes my feelings almost perfectly!

Seriously, a call and just 3 messages can really spoil your mood for the day/night.

Perhaps I’m one who easily gets irritated!

The call this morning was from my 23year old brother, whose calls I’m shunning recently because he keeps asking me for money.



I always give him whenever he asks for it but I’m not feeling rich after the Europe trip loh. Still recuperating! I will really be thankful if he stops hounding me. Moreover, it’s high time he understands the meaning of “independent”.

Another 3 messages were from my mum’s colleague yesterday who got my number from Mummy because he said he wants to buy personal accident plan. The 1st time I called him was actually just before my Europe trip in March. And I asked him whether it’s okie that I get back to him after my trip. He said okie. But when I called him again, the first time he said he cant make it for my timing, the second time he cancelled our appointment, and the third time his message said, “sorry, no mood today.”

I’m actually accustomed to reasons or excuses, but the “no mood” today kinda scratched my nerve. However, I merely said things like “it’s okie. When you have mood already then contact me bah. Enjoy your day.” That’s it. In my heart, I’ve already strike him off my prospect list. I mean, you approached my mother, got my number and said you need an accident plan. Of course I do what I have to do by calling you and fulfilling your needs. In any case if you decided you dont want it anymore, can always tell me mah.

So I reallllyyy dont understand why he continues to message me things like “Hi, have you eaten your lunch?” as if it’s his business, or “Hi, have a nice day” where it could have been a better day without his messages. THIS FACADE has been going on for weeks!


Initially I have been patient and replied his few messages with polite but non-committal attitude, like “Yeah. Thank you”. Perhaps with a smiley or something. He is ultimately my mum’s colleague. I wont want him to complain to my mum or anything, I dont want to make things ugly too. It’s never my style. I wanted so much to tell me to leave me alone, instead, I merely ignored his messages. When I started to ignore his messages, his messaging changed a whole new “style”. He started to ask things like, “how’s your mum?”, or “Take good care of your mum”. I was thinking…”I take very good care of my mum OK and there’s no need for your worry!” But still, I didnt reply.

And yesterday, his messages made me wonder is there something wrong with his mental??!!!

First message:
Hi, how are you?

(the usuals la)

Second message:
Hi, is your mother in?

(what’s that got to do with you??? You can jolly well call her yourself and how would I know whether she’s home when we lived separately?? A fact which you already knew)

Third message:
Help me to wish your mother happy mother’s day

You know how irritating it is. I really suspect he has a thing for my mummy although he’s around 28. Dont underestimate my mum though, she attracts guys of all ages. Lol. Once, there was a young guy of around this age too followed a long way just to help her carry some heavy stuff in Clementi. Even when she reached the train station, he refused to leave! Weird huh….we always meet crazy people. Hmm…but I dont remember mummy telling me that this “Jason” has a thing for her nor were they on very good terms. On the other way, I also dont want to make her annoyed for she will definitely blame herself for giving me this trouble. Also, I’m afraid that will discourage her from referring real potential prospects in future.

You know what’s so nauseating about the whole thing? That is how he ACTS like he’s on very good terms with my mum and how he’s soOo concerned with our well-being. He certainly should give all that concern and time to his wife instead. However, at the back of my mind, I’m afraid to misunderstand him just in case he’s really that concerned for my mother. On the other hand, I’m wondering is he crazy?

I finally got so curious that I called up mum a min ago and hooray, she told me he actually resigned around 1month ago. Now I can ask him to f……I mean, stop bothering me without fear that he will make things difficult for my mum. Mummy clarified that she was only on “ok” terms with him and dont think he harbors any interest for her since he’s married.

In conclusion, this guy is just CRAZY!! CRAZY CRAZY CRAZY!!